Het is soms lastig om in je kracht te staan als leidinggevende
What I often see happening with women who lead is that it is difficult to truly stand in your strength.
They feel vaak not recognized while under pressuren to perform on many fronts. If they already know wIf they really want it, it turns out to be difficult to ask for it.
This pressure often makes them feel as if they are no longer performing well in any area. Often this has been going on for a while, they are quite a bit tired but they persevere. They are real go-getters.
Yet it gnaws at their motivation, their creativity and their 'drive'. And it starts to nibble at their sense of happiness. Unfortunately, they often start to notice this at home too...
Soms voelt het op dat moment alsof je innerlijke criticus je vertelt dat je beter voor jezelf moet zorgen en tegelijkertijd dat je harder moet werken. Soms slaan je gedachten op hol in negatieve richting en verhoog je je stress. Maar dat wil je helemaal niet.
Je stopt de gedachten weg maar onbewust verzwakken ze je en hebben ze invloed op je uitstraling, je motivatie en je creatiekracht.
There is no need to feel powerless in a position you were so ready to make a difference in. It is possible to stand in your strength in this role.
JYou can create peace in your mind through sustainable behavioral change and by respecting your own compass, taking your yeses and nos seriously and expressing what you want in a friendly and clear manner.
By indicating your boundaries in this way, you will be seen and heard in your own authentic way. This gives you energy, increases your drive and will bring back the commitment you are so famous for. This then enables you to make the impact you have always envisioned.
You know what you want, you feel fit, confident and it is seen that you make a difference. You are able to reduce the pressure yourself, take responsibility for yourself and your feelings and feel your own strength.
You feel relaxed and curious and you make time for what you know is important to you in your agenda. Not what's important to someone else's agenda.
You feel your attraction, your creative power and have meaningful conversations that touch you and others. Many positive changes happen unconsciously and you will be approached for new adventures (think: promotion, love, impact, change).
And what if there was a proven method that could help you get there so that you have the space to trust and enjoy the process without having to force yourself.
Je wordt in staat gesteld om je eigen kompas te creëren, je gewoonten en gedachten die je beperken te veranderen, je zelfvertrouwen te verhogen, je vrouwelijke kwaliteiten te omarmen en om gezien en gehoord te worden.
En wat zou het betekenen om mij te hebben als je coach? Je gaat voor blijvende gedragsverandering, niet voor een ‘quick fix’. En voor diepgaande transformatie, ook op het niveau van gedachten/overtuigingen en identiteit. Zodat je resultaten niet alleen op je werk zichtbaar zullen zijn maar ook thuis en bij vrienden doorwerken.
Je werkt met een liefdevolle, resultaatgerichte coach die op een vergelijkbare positie werkzaam is geweest en aan wie je niets hoeft uit te leggen. Elke sessie is op zichzelf een positieve reset zodat het makkelijk is vol te houden, ook met een drukke baan. Alle sessies samen maken het onvermijdelijk dat angst, frustratie of verdriet wordt omgezet in persoonlijke kracht.
Het Mellow Revolution Programma – verandert angst in persoonlijke kracht, doorbreekt patronen door op drie niveaus te werken: gedrag, gedachten & overtuigingen en identiteit. Dit zorgt voor blijvende resultaten. Elke sessie gaan we in op persoonlijke behoeften en ontvang je nieuwe inspiratie.
13 weken inspiratie, ontspanning, connectie en persoonlijke groei
WEEK 0: Introductions
Get acquainted, learn the rules of the game and get even more excited.
WEEK 1: What do you want to achieve?
Determining goals, setting intentions, finding out 'the why behind the why' and 15 Mellow Revolution guidelines.
WEEK 2: How do I conserve energy?
Quick habit scan. Find out what your specific energy providers and are energy guzzlers, including the assassins.
WEEK 3: Honoring your yeses and nos
Whose agenda do you mainly work on? How do you make sure it's yours?
WEEK 4: Ontdek de kracht van plezier bij gewoonteverandering
Leer hoe je plezier aan je doelen verbindt.
WEEK 5: Over Sabotage
We onderzoeken in je onderbewuste of er misschien meer slechte redenen dan goede redenen zijn om je doelen te willen behalen.
WEEK 6: Wat wil de rebel in jou?
We creëren een avontuurlijk menu voor de rebel die je doelen ondersteunt en niet destructief is en een warm, omarmend menu voor de liefdevolle jij.
WEEK 7: Het geheim van de optimale staat voor verandering
We streven continu naar de optimale staat waarin je de beste keuzes voor jezelf kunt maken.
WEEK 8: Hoe nieuwsgierig ben jij? – Leer luisteren naar je intuïtie – 1
Nieuwsgierigheid is liefdevol en onontbeerlijk bij verandering.
WEEK 9: Bevrijd je persoonlijke kracht
– Leer luisteren naar je intuïtie - 2 (persoonlijke sessie)
WEEK 10: Ervaar de kracht van erkenning We gaan op een andere manier oefenen met dankbaarheid.
WEEK 11: Het verschil tussen willen en wensen Je zult merken hoever je al gekomen bent.
WEEK 12: ‘Closing ritual’ en vooruitblik
WOMEN ON THEIR MELLOW REVOLUTION
"Natascha helped me to clarify what I need and what I want. We have devised concrete actions for this. This has helped me enormously to settle well in my new, complex job. The conversations are mutually open, a bit strict, but with humor and often also emotionally. After every conversation I feel stronger and better equipped for the great challenges in my life."
Business unit manager Energy company
"Natascha understands my question, listens, investigates and asks questions critically, also at deeper layers. Always with respect and compassion. She makes me more aware, but also helps me to find practical solutions. I then practice these with the whole family. I have the feeling of understanding myself better and being able to take better care of myself and my body."
Annick Schmeddes
Owner Sustainable Talent
"After I had come out of a 'me too' situation at work and was faced with the prospect of hip surgery, I accepted with both hands the invitation to take part in a 12-session program with Natascha.enomen. I wanted to get rid of the victim position I had ended up in and wanted to become 'whole' again, feel confident and be positive.
With Natascha's help, I started listening to myself more and found out what I would prefer. I'm less of a place nowcaring towards others and am able to focus on myself with more recognition. I am more aware, which allows me to analyze the feelings that I still have from time to time and thus create space for myself to deal with them in a different way and to let go of the self-defense mechanism. This reduces the pressure, makes me milder and more positive and also helps with confidence.
And not only do I appreciate that, but also the people around me, both at home and in the office. Natascha guides you through different phases lovingly and with unwavering enthusiasm. I shed a lot of tears and also had very happy moments. I wish everyone a Natascha in his or her life."
Antoinette van Roosmalen
Coordinator of government agency
"What a wonderful, enriching and exciting coaching process! Natascha coaches very pleasantly: loving, positive and decisive. This makes me feel confident to be honest and vulnerable, makes me feel valued and takes steps.
II had doubts about following a group program, but how educational is that! I am very happy that I am giving myself the time to experience this mellow revolution, together with Natascha and the other women.”
Leonie, adjunct - directeur
"The fact that I already knew and trusted Natascha gave me a good feeling. Once I was ready, I no longer hesitated. She showed me that there are ways to find out what you want.
I am more aware of what is holding me back, my dilemmas and pain points and that I have influence on this. By gaining the insight and practice that I have a choice, even though I sometimes don't think so, and by then working on something positive that is good for me, I feel that I have much more strength and energy than I thought.
Each session is in itself a positive reset that other women should allow themselves. I feel more balanced and face my future with more confidence. ."
Stefany Rietkerk
Executive producer Artcore
"There is only development, no right or wrong. Trust the process! Natascha creates a safe atmosphere, in trust, so that everyone expresses what they are experiencing very openly and honestly.
Very nice to sometimes face personal and vulnerable issues together with other women. Sharing is very stimulating for me.
The process feels intensive to me, but with room for if things don't go well or if you feel resistance. Natascha coaches positively, with gentleness and openness, supportive and accepting. And she also shares with the group, which makes her more of a cooperative leader than an all-knowing coach, which I really like."
Marieke,
HR and commercial project management
“If colleagues spontaneously tell you that you have changed a lot in recent months, more open, more self-confident, more assertive, then you know that you have made the right choice and that the coaching really works. The fact that I am already making such progress in lockdown mode shows to me that the program is based on your intrinsic strength and is therefore effective, the result is sustainable.”
Ellen, service management consultant.
"Dat ik me schaamde voor wie ik was en wat ik deed was ik me voor dit programma nog niet bewust. Ik heb geleerd dat gevoelens van schaamte funest kunnen zijn voor iedere relatie of het nu gaat om privé- of werkrelaties of de relatie met jezelf. In twaalf wekelijkse sessies leer je hoe je met aandacht en liefde voor jezelf kunt zorgen. Het coaching programma brengt mij rust in mijn hoofd, maakt me positiever en geeft me energie. Ook nek- en schouder klachten worden minder en alles bij elkaar zorgt dat ervoor dat ik mij fysiek en mentaal sterker voel dan ooit. "
Jacqueline Ten Hoope
Staff lawyer dean/attorney
"Door de duurzame gedragsveranderingsmethode van Mellow Revolution ben ik van onzeker en oordelend naar meer nieuwsgierig, empathisch en minder oordelend naar mezelf en anderen geworden. Natascha heeft me keuzes laten voelen in plaats van beredeneren en daardoor makkelijker beslissingen laten nemen.
Haar positieve opdrachten hebben ervoor gezorgd dat ik meer bij mezelf en bij mijn eigen kracht ben gekomen. Door de focus op hoe ik me wil voelen, weet ik nu dat ik iets bijzonders te bieden heb. De schroom is verdwenen. Ik gun iedere ‘corporate lady’ een Mellow Revolution."
Inge Wallage
Hoofd communicatie
"When I first came to Natascha, I was busy with everything that was expected of me, both at work and privately. And that involved setting very high standards for myself and a lot of self-criticism.
Natascha has made me aware of my own strong foundation. Brought back to the 'core'. Who are you as a person, what are your unique kqualities, how do you want to feel, what do you want to achieve and how do you let yourself shine and create your own happiness? Natascha helped me to sharpen this again and create my own compass. And not only to focus, but also to focus immediately to trade.
With concrete exercises and small “mind tweaks” that you can incorporate into your day-to-day life, you learn to transform insecurities into curiosity. And also how to act on it from my own strength and thus create my own happiness and more peace.
She helped me accept and respect my inner critic and encouraged me to follow my own intuition and see the value of all the lessons life brings and embrace them. And above all, enjoy it!
Not entirely unimportant: Natascha has always made me feel very comfortable. She is a beautiful person, with whom I immediately felt a connection from moment one. Every session I felt safe and seen. You will be guided by someone who, based on her own experience, strength and knowledge, provides direction on how you can act from your own strength again, both professionally and privately.
Thanks to the program, I now act much more from my own strength, I say more easily and quickly what I want and find important and I smile at the world with curiosity. And this attitude continues and has an effect on my career, my health, my family and my love relationship.
The program helps you focus again on those things that are good for you, and helps you get energy from those sources that are best for you: your own energy sources. And to look at the future with curiosity and confidence. Because there is so much beauty ahead: enjoy the ride!
Nadia Parisi
Communications adviser
"Natascha supports me in my journey of discovery towards self-development. I find the group contact very valuable. The fact that we make agreements within the group fits in well, which means there is already a stick behind the door.
We learn from each other and support each other. That gives me wings. The program that Natascha has developed fits in very well and she coaches in a very personal, loving and safe way.”
Jennifer, co-ceo.