It is sometimes difficult to stand in your strength as a manager
What I often see happening with women in leadership positions is that it is difficult to truly stand in your power. If they already know what they want, it turns out to be difficult to ask for it. They often feel unrecognized while they are under pressure to perform on many fronts. This pressure often makes them feel as if they are no longer performing well in any area. Often this has been going on for a while, they are quite a bit tired but they persevere. Yet it gnaws at their motivation, their creativity and their 'drive'. And it starts to nibble at their sense of happiness and they start to notice it at home too...
Sometimes it feels like your inner critic is telling you at that moment that you need to take better care of yourself and at the same time that you need to work harder. Sometimes your thoughts go crazy and they go in the direction of: “If I'm gone, they will feel that they miss me!” But actually you don't want that at all. You put the thoughts away, but subconsciously they affect your appearance, weaken you and create a lot of stress for your body and mind...
Know that it doesn't have to be this way...
There is no need to fall victim to the position you were so ready for. It is possible to stand in your power in this role. You can create peace in your mind through sustainable behavioral change and by respecting your own compass, taking your yeses and nos seriously, expressing what you want and making your boundaries clear so that you will be seen and heard. This gives an energy! This will enable you to make the impact you have always envisioned.
What would it mean for you to regain your strength?
Je weet wat je wilt, je voelt je fit, zelfverzekerd en het wordt gezien dat je verschil maakt. Je bent in staat om de druk zelf te verlagen en je eigen kracht te laten toenemen.
Je voelt je ontspannen en nieuwsgierig en je maakt tijd voor wat jij weet wat belangrijk is in jouw agenda. Niet voor de agenda van iemand anders. Je voelt je aantrekkingskracht, je creatiekracht en hebt betekenisvolle gesprekken die jou en anderen raken. Veel veranderingen gaan onbewust en je zult benaderd worden voor nieuwe avonturen (denk aan: promotie, liefde, impact, verandering).
En wat als er een bewezen methode zou zijn die je daar helpt te komen zodat jij ruimte krijgt om het proces te vertrouwen en ervan te genieten zonder dat je je hoeft te forceren.
You will be empowered to create your own compass, change the habits and thoughts that limit you, increase your self-confidence, embrace your feminine qualities and be seen and heard.
And what would it mean to have me as your coach? You aim for lasting behavioral change, not for a 'quick fix'. And for profound transformation, also at the level of thoughts/beliefs and identity. So that your results will not only be visible at work, but will also have an impact at home and with friends.
You work with a loving, results-oriented coach who has worked in a similar position and to whom you do not have to explain anything. Each session is in itself a positive reset so that it is easy to maintain, even with a busy job. All twelve sessions together make it inevitable that fear, frustration or sadness is converted into personal power.
Mellow Revolution Total Transformation Program – turns fear into personal power, breaking patterns by working on three levels: behavior, thoughts & beliefs and identity. This ensures lasting results. Every session we address personal needs and I share new inspiration.
12 steps - 12 weeks of inspiration and choice
WEEK 1: Wat wil je bereiken?
Doelen bepalen, intenties zetten, ’the why behind the why’ achterhalen en 10 Mellow Revolution richtlijnen.
WEEK 2: Hoe behoud ik energie?
Snelle gewoonstescan. Uitvinden wat jouw specifieke energiegevers en energieslurpers zijn, inclusief de sluipmoordenaars.
WEEK 3: Jouw ja’s en nee’s eren
Wiens agenda werk jij vooral af? Hoe zorg je dat het de jouwe is?
WEEK 4: Ontdek de kracht van plezier bij gewoonteverandering
Leer hoe je plezier aan je doelen verbindt.
WEEK 5: About Sabotage
We investigate in your subconscious whether there may be more bad reasons than good reasons for wanting to achieve your goals.
WEEK 6: What does the rebel in you want – voice dialogue
We create an adventurous menu for the rebel who supports your goals and a nurturing and warm menu for the loving you.
WEEK 7: The secret of the optimal state for change
We continuously strive for the optimal state in which you can make the best choices for yourself.
WEEK 8: How curious are you? – Learn to listen to your intuition – 1
Curiosity is loving and indispensable for change.
WEEK 9: Free your personal power – Learn to listen to your intuition - 2 (longer session)
WEEK 10: Experience the power of recognition
We will practice gratitude in a different way.
WEEK 11: The difference between wanting and wishing
You will notice how far you have come.
WOMEN ON THEIR MELLOW REVOLUTION
"Natascha helped me to clarify what I need and what I want. We have devised concrete actions for this. This has helped me enormously to settle well in my new, complex job. The conversations are mutually open, a bit strict, but with humor and often also emotionally. After every conversation I feel stronger and better equipped for the great challenges in my life."
"Natascha understands my question, listens, investigates and asks questions critically, also at deeper layers. Always with respect and compassion. She makes me more aware, but also helps me to find practical solutions. I then practice these with the whole family. I have the feeling of understanding myself better and being able to take better care of myself and my body."
"After I had come out of a 'me too' situation at work and was faced with the prospect of hip surgery, I accepted with both hands the invitation to take part in a 12-session program with Natascha. I wanted to get rid of the victim. position I had found myself in and wanted to become 'whole' again, feel confident and have a positive outlook on life.
With Natascha's help, I started listening to myself more and found out what I would prefer. I am now less judgmental of others and am able to focus on myself with more recognition. I am more aware, which allows me to analyze the feelings that I still have from time to time and thus create space for myself to deal with them in a different way and to let go of the self-defense mechanism. This reduces the pressure, makes me milder and more positive and also helps with confidence. And not only do I appreciate that, but also the people around me, both at home and in the office. Natascha guides you through different phases lovingly and with unwavering enthusiasm. I shed a lot of tears and also had very happy moments. I wish everyone a Natascha in his or her life."
"To me Natascha combines a carrying, warm, empathetic and guilt free approach with an abundance of knowledge and tools to apply to even the most reluctant of personalities. Without fail, at the end of every conversation I am left with a feeling of motivation and a clear set of manageable action steps.
The insight ‘how you do one thing, is how you do everything’ certainly had its effect on me. Key to my transformation was giving myself permission to transform, feeling less guilty and taking more ownership. Months after the actual coaching this resulted in better self-awareness, more self-confidence and a promotion."
"I was not yet aware that I was ashamed before this program. I have learned that feelings of shame can be disastrous for any relationship, whether it concerns private or work relationships or the relationship with yourself. In twelve weekly sessions you will learn how you can take care of yourself with attention and love. The coaching program gives me peace of mind, makes me more positive and gives me energy. Neck and shoulder complaints also become less and all together it makes me feel physically and mentally stronger. feel than ever."
"Door de duurzame gedragsveranderingsmethode van Mellow Revolution ben ik van onzeker en oordelend naar meer nieuwsgierig, empathisch en minder oordelend naar mezelf en anderen geworden. Natascha heeft me keuzes laten voelen in plaats van beredeneren en daardoor makkelijker beslissingen laten nemen. Haar positieve opdrachten hebben ervoor gezorgd dat ik meer bij mezelf en bij mijn eigen kracht ben gekomen. Door de focus op hoe ik me wil voelen, weet ik nu dat ik iets bijzonders te bieden heb. En het inzicht dat geld energie is, deed het ‘m voor mij. De schroom is verdwenen. Ik gun iedere ‘corporate lady’ met ondernemer ideeën een Mellow Revolution."